What I did this winter

This winter I planned to work on several of my goals:

1. Craft projects, including knitting and sketching
2. Sorting my Photographs
3. Continuing my health and fitness plan
4. Decluttering and sorting my home

In actual fact, I achieved very little of this and spent most of the winter hibernating.


At first I was disappointed with myself, when I realised two things:
1. The only person putting pressure on myself was me
2. I am not a 1950's housewife - this is 2014 and I work full time

I tend to take on most of the housework and cooking during the week (reason being, I get home from work 1.5 - 2 hours before my boyfriend). Almost every day he comes home to a cooked meal, dishes and laundry done, bird fed and cage cleaned - all he has to do is sit down and eat in the evenings.

The other reason that I tend to take over the housework, even over the weekends, is because of my personality. I like to plan and organise. I spend long portions of my day (when I am not working) thinking about meal plans for the week, grocery lists, my schedule when I get home and spring cleaning that needs to be done.

So perhaps the winter hibernation was good for me. Although I still did the cooking and cleaning every evening, I didn't pressure myself to do anything more that I could cope with. And if I felt like everything was too much, if I was just too tired to cook and clean and do everything all the time, Mr never put pressure on me to be Perfect Housewife (this is one of the reasons I love him so much).

But now it is spring time - the days are getting longer and the evenings are warmer. And so it is time to restart my healthy living routine.